[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#3C1518″ background_image=”https:\/\/www.coloradolegalservices.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/CLS_ARTWORK_6.png” background_enable_mask_style=”on” background_mask_style=”wave” background_mask_color=”rgba(255,255,255,0.9)” background_last_edited=”on|desktop” use_background_color_gradient_tablet=”on” background_color_gradient_stops_tablet=”rgba(255,255,255,0.9) 0%|rgba(255,255,255,0.9) 100%” background_color_gradient_overlays_image_tablet=”on” background_position_tablet=”bottom_center” background_enable_mask_style_tablet=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Custody” _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][dmpro_breadcrumbs bc_custom_home=”on” bc_home_text=”Home” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-30px|||5px|false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/dmpro_breadcrumbs][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” background_enable_color=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Allocation of Parental Responsibilities” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n
As part of a custody or divorce case, the Court will address issues regarding your child(ren). In Colorado, \u201cCustody\u201d is called \u201cAllocation of Parental Responsibilities\u201d or \u201cAPR\u201d for short. APR is broken down into three categories: <\/p>\n
[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_3,1_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Parenting Time” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||divi||400″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Decision-Making” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” image_icon_width_tablet=”30px” image_icon_width_phone=”30px” image_icon_width_last_edited=”on|tablet” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Child Support” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px|4px||3px|false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#F3F3F3″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Parenting Time” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n
Parenting time is the schedule of who the child(ren) live with or spend time with. There are an infinite number of possible parenting time schedules and your schedule should be tailored to your unique situation. In general, Courts want to encourage frequent<\/strong> and continuing<\/strong> contact between each parent and the minor children.<\/p>\n The Court should consider \u201cthe best interest of the child<\/strong>\u201d when making any decision about the children. A list of all the factors in the \u201cbest interest of the child\u201d statute can be found here<\/a>.<\/p>\n While the Court wants to encourage a relationship between each parent and the child, the child\u2019s safety and their physical, mental, and emotional needs are the most important when designing a parent time schedule.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”Parenting Time FAQs” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h3″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”My children tell me that they don\u2019t want to see the other parent. Will their opinion matter to the Court? ” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It may. A child\u2019s wishes are considered by the Court if the child is mature enough to have an independent opinion. However, the Court is not required to follow a child\u2019s wish or opinion. There is no set age at which children can make their own decisions about parenting time.<\/p>\n You may have a hard time telling the Court what your child\u2019s opinion is. The Court will not allow children to testify, and you cannot tell the Court what your children told you (that is \u201chearsay\u201d or when you tell the Court what someone not present in court said).<\/p>\n If your child is mature and has a strong opinion about parenting time, you can either 1) ask the Court to speak to the child privately (this is called an \u201cin camera interview\u201d and you must request it by motion) or you can ask the Court to appoint a Child and Family Investigator. Typically, Child and Family Investigators<\/a> will privately interview your child(ren) as part of their larger investigation. A Child and Family Investigator will write a report to the Court that summarizes their investigation and makes recommendations to the Court. Like the Court, the Child and Family Investigator can consider a child\u2019s opinion about parent time, but they are not required to follow the child\u2019s opinion or wishes in their recommendations. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent is abusive and has an alcohol addiction. Will the Court require my kids to spend time with them? ” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n The Court will likely allow some<\/em> parenting time with the parent, but it may be professionally supervised or have other restrictions to make sure the children are safe.<\/p>\n If one parent cannot safely care for the children, the Court has many options to still allow some level of contact. The Court may order phone or video calls. The Court may order professionally supervised visits at a facility. The Court may order drug and\/or alcohol testing before parenting time. You should think about what measures would make you confident your kids were safe with the other parent.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent talks bad about me in front of the kids and it affects how the kids treat me. Will the Court care?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Yes, the Court will be concerned if either parent is involving the children in adult conflict and\/or speaking poorly of the other parent to the children. The Court wants parents to encourage a relationship between the children and the other parent (with exceptions for true safety concerns). The Court also wants parents to put the needs of their kids before their own. Custody and separation can be stressful and emotional, but find someone other than your kids to talk or vent to. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent has a new romantic partner. I don\u2019t like them and I don\u2019t want my kids to be around them. Will the Court prohibit my ex from bringing their new partner around my kids?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It depends, but generally no. If the Court finds that the other parent is a safe and appropriate parent, then the Court will usually trust them to decide who is around the kids on their parenting time. However, if you have specific evidence about a new partner (for example, you know they were recently convicted of felony child abuse charges) then you should tell the Court this information. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”What is a Child and Family Investigator?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n A Child and Family Investigator (often referred to as a \u201cCFI\u201d) is an impartial expert appointed by the Court to investigate the case and make recommendations about parenting time and decision-making. CFIs are neutral parties to a case; they do not represent you or the other parent. They will investigate allegations of health problems, domestic violence, substance abuse, and any other issues regarding the best interest of the children. CFIs can require parents to release (share) their mental records and other privileged documents for the CFI\u2019s review. They will interview you and the other parent. Before Covid, CFIs would also conduct home visits and typically speak to the children privately. CFIs can also review police reports, photos, recordings, and any other evidence you believe is relevant to your children. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”How do I ask for a Child and Family Investigator in my case?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n You will need to file a motion requesting a CFI. You can find a template motion by going to https:\/\/www.coloradojudicial.gov\/<\/a> and going to the Self Help\/Forms tab. The Motion for Appointment of Child and Family Investigator (JDF 1317<\/strong>) can be downloaded in Word or PDF format. When you file a Motion for a CFI, you will need to submit the Order Appointing the CFI as well. This form can be found in the same place (JDF 1318<\/strong>).<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Do Child and Family Investigators cost money?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Yes. A CFI is paid for by the parties. Low-income parties may qualify for \u201cstate pay\u201d where the state will pay for the CFI. If you would like to see if you qualify for \u201cstate pay\u201d you and the other parent should each fill out and submit form JDF 208<\/strong> available at https:\/\/www.coloradojudicial.gov\/<\/a> under the Self Help\/Forms tab.<\/p>\n If you do not qualify for state pay, Child and Family Investigators costs $3,250.00. It is up to the Court how to divide this cost between you and the other parent. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent has filed a custody case and served me. Can I move out of state with my children while the case is pending?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Not without Court permission or agreement from the other parent. Once a case is filed and served, a \u201ctemporary injunction\u201d goes into effect, and you cannot move the children out of state unless you have written permission from the other parent or a Court order. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”I\u2019m in the middle of a custody case, but I want to move out of Colorado when my case is over. Will this affect my custody case?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Yes. When parents live far away from each other, it significantly impacts the type of parenting time schedule the Court can order. For example, if parents live 20 hours away from each other, a week on\/week off schedule is very unlikely to be ordered.<\/p>\n If you want to move out of state during or soon after your APR case, you will need to let the Court know. If your case is pre-decree (meaning no permanent or final orders have been entered), then the \u201cSpahmer<\/em>\u201d case applies. Sphamer<\/em> states that the Court must accept the location where each party intends to live and decide parental responsibilities according to the best interest of the child under C.R.S. \u00a7 14-10-124.\u00a0 This means the Court has no authority to order a parent to remain in a certain location. Once you tell the Court you intend to move, the Court must create a parenting schedule using that location. Spahmer v. Gullette<\/em>, 113 P.3d 158 (Colo. 2005).<\/p>\n It is important to note that if your case is post-decree (meaning the Court has entered a final parenting plan or permanent orders) then the Spahmer<\/em> case does not apply and the Court will be applying a different legal standard. It can be harder to move out of state once the Court has entered a final parenting plan. Relocation after permanent orders is discussed more below.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Modifying Parenting Time FAQs” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h3″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”How can I change my parenting time orders?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n If the other parent agrees with the change, you can file a Stipulation<\/a> (agreement) Regarding Parenting Time Modification, a Joint Parenting Plan<\/a> reflecting the change(s), and a Proposed Order<\/a> (you just need to fill out the case caption). The Court will likely grant a change both parents agree to.<\/p>\n If the other parent does not agree with the change, you will need to file a Motion and Affidavit to Change Parenting Time<\/a>. You will also need to file a Parenting Plan<\/a> reflecting the change(s) you are requesting, and a Proposed Order<\/a> (you just need to fill out the case caption). The other parent will have a chance to respond or object to your motion and the Court may order you to attend mediation and\/or hold a hearing regarding your requested change. A Child and Family Investigation can also be appointed to investigate and make recommendations to the court about what parenting time should be.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”How does the Court decide if it will change parenting time orders?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n The Court will still consider the best interest of the child when deciding if there should be a change to parenting time; however, the Court must consider other factors too including but not limited to if anything has changed since the last court order, if your proposed change would affect who the child lives with the majority of the time, when the last motion to modify was filed, and if a parent has been convicted of a crime.<\/p>\n See the flow chart below for how the court evaluates different post-decree modifications of parenting time: <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” background_enable_color=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Decision-Making” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n \u201cDecision-making\u201d refers to who is making major decisions for your children. Decision-making is broken into four major categories: medical, educational, religious and extra-curricular. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_4,1_4,1_4,1_4″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Medical” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Educational” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Religious” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_4″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_blurb title=”Extra-Curricular” use_icon=”on” font_icon=”||fa||900″ icon_color=”#F7C959″ icon_placement=”left” image_icon_width=”40px” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” image_icon_custom_margin=”-10px||||false|false” custom_margin=”||5px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Decision-Making FAQs” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h3″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”What is not a major decision?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Major decision-making does not include day-to-day decisions such as minor discipline, minor medical and dental care, curfew, chores, allowance, clothing, hygiene, etc. These decisions will be made by the party who has the child(ren) at the time such decisions are necessary. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent has never once been to a doctor\u2019s appointment or parent teacher conference. How do I get sole decision-making for my kids? ” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Courts must decide decision-making based on what is best for the child. The Court can consider the past \u201cpattern of involvement\u201d (who did what) when deciding who will have decision-making power. The Court will also consider if the parents are able to communicate with each other parent in order to make decisions. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”I am the victim of domestic violence. Do I have to share decision-making with my abuser?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It depends. The law states that joint decision-making shall not be ordered over the objection of a victim of domestic violence unless there is creditable (reliable) evidence that parties are able to make decisions together in a manner that is safe for the abused party. It is your responsibility to prove that the other parent has committed domestic violence against you. This can be done through your testimony, witness testimony, photos, text messages, recordings, police reports, medical reports, or other evidence. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”My child has a special medical condition and the other parent has not been involved with their doctors. Can I have sole medical decision-making and share the other categories with my ex? ” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Yes, you and the other parent or the Court can \u201cmix and match\u201d decision-making in the different categories. For example, you could have sole medical decision-making, but share educational, religious and extracurricular with the other parent. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Modifying Decision-Making FAQs” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h3″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”How can I change my decision-making orders?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n If the other parent agrees with the change, you can file a Stipulation<\/a> (agreement) to Change Decision-Making, and a Proposed Order<\/a> (you just need to fill out the case caption). The Court will likely grant a change both parents agree to.<\/p>\n If the other parent does not agree with the change, you will need to file a Motion and Affidavit to Change Decision-Making<\/a>. You will also need to file a Proposed Order<\/a> (you just need to fill out the case caption). The other parent will have a chance to respond or object to your motion and the Court may order you to attend mediation and\/or hold a hearing regarding your requested change.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”Is my motion to change decision-making time barred? ” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n If you have filed a Motion to Modify decision-making within the last 2 years, whether or not this motion was granted, you are time-barred from filing another motion to modify decision-making. The only exception is if the Court decides that there is reason to believe that a continuation of the prior order allocating decision-making responsibility may endanger the child’s physical health or significantly impair the child’s emotional development. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”How does the Court decide if it will change decision-making orders?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It can be difficult to change court orders regarding decision-making. You must show that there has been a change in circumstances or new facts since the Court\u2019s latest order regarding decision-making. Even then, the Court will not modify decision-making orders unless you can prove one of the following: [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” background_color=”#F3F3F3″ global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_row column_structure=”2_3,1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”||0px|||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”2_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_heading title=”Child Support” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.5″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n Courts follow a formula that was decided upon by the state legislature to determine child support. The main factors for the child support calculation are the gross (pre-tax) income of each parent and the amount of time each parent has with the child(ren). The Court will also consider work-related child care costs and the cost of the child\u2019s health insurance. Other factors are discussed more in Colo. Rev. Stat. \u00a714-10-115<\/a>.<\/p>\n You can always contact your local Child Support Enforcement office for assistance establishing and collecting child support. Information on local offices as well as online application can be found at http:\/\/www.childsupport.state.co.us\/<\/a><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”Child Support FAQs” _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h3″ title_font_size=”36px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_heading][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″ _builder_version=”4.26.1″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px|||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”How can I estimate how much child support I\u2019ll receive?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n The Colorado Judicial website has a free support calculator you can use to estimate child support. It can be found here<\/a> or go to https:\/\/www.coloradojudicial.gov\/<\/a>, on the drop-down menu under \u201cSelf Help and Forms\u201d click \u201cSelf-Help Resources,\u201d then click \u201cFamily Cases\u201d and finally click \u201cCalculate Support Payments\u201d. <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”The other parent quit their high paying job right before I filed for custody. Will they still have to pay child support?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It depends. If a parent is not employed at all or only part-time by choice<\/em>, courts can \u201cimpute\u201d income to that parent, which means the court can pretend that parent is earning more than they actually are when calculating child support. [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”I am disabled. Will I have to pay child support?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It depends. You will need to present evidence to the Court about your disability and explain how it impacts (effects) your employment. If you receive any government aid based on your disability (SSI or SSDI for example), you should tell the Court. If you cannot maintain employment because of your disability, the Court will likely use your actual income for calculating child support. [\/et_pb_toggle][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_toggle title=”I am between jobs and food stamps are my only income. Will I have to pay child support?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n It depends. The Court will evaluate if you are voluntarily unemployed or underemployed. [\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=”How can I receive child support?” open_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ open_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” closed_toggle_text_color=”#000000″ closed_toggle_background_color=”#FFFFFF” icon_color=”#0C3F49″ open_icon_color=”#0C3F49″ _builder_version=”4.27.2″ _module_preset=”default” title_text_color=”#000000″ title_level=”h6″ title_font_size=”18px” custom_margin=”||15px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n
The parties agree to the modification in decision-making;<\/p>\n\n
The Court will determine what a parent could potentially earn if they were employed full-time or employed to their full potential. The Court will then use this imputed income to calculate child support.
Courts cannot, however, impute income to disabled adults, parents who are full-time students working towards a certificate or degree, or parents caring for a joint child less than 24 months. <\/p>\n
The amount of time you spend with your children and the other parent\u2019s income will also affect child support. <\/p>\n
Means-based public benefits such as food stamps or SSI, do not count as income for calculating child support. Social Security Disability does count as income. A complete list of what the Court will and will not count as income can be found in the Statute Colo. Rev. Stat. \u00a714-10-115<\/a>.
The amount of time you spend with your children and the other parent\u2019s income will also affect child support. <\/p>\n